Thirty-One Ways to be a Good Man

America needs men, real men, who can be good husbands, fathers and grandfathers. Women need good men who will be their life long partners.

As my love, my life, my wife and I are approaching our 60th wedding anniversity, I can only hope and pray that she still sees me as a good man.

I, as a man, have always believed in faith, family and freedom.

One man, who was a good man, was Charles James Kirk.

Here are thirty-one ways to be a good man:

1. Honor the Sabbath: Dedicate time for rest and spiritual reflection.
2. Journal Daily: Reflect on your thoughts and experiences to foster personal growth.
3. Get Married: Embrace the value of traditional marriage and family.
4. Read the Bible Daily: Engage with scripture to strengthen your faith.
5. Never Surrender: Stand firm in your beliefs and values, regardless of challenges.
6. Be Bold and Courageous: Approach life with confidence and bravery.
7. Stand Up for Your Beliefs: Advocate for your principles in all areas of life.
8. Engage in Conversations: Have discussions with people who hold different views to foster understanding.
9. Serve Others: Look for ways to help and uplift those around you.
10. Practice Gratitude: Regularly express thankfulness for your blessings.
11. Be Informed: Stay educated on current events and issues that matter to you.
12. Support Your Community: Get involved in local initiatives and support local businesses.
13. Promote Free Speech: Advocate for the right to express diverse opinions.
14. Encourage Young People: Mentor and inspire the next generation to be active and engaged citizens.
15. Participate in Civic Activities: Vote, attend town hall meetings, and engage in local governance.
16. Be a Lifelong Learner: Continuously seek knowledge and personal development.
17. Practice Humility: Recognize your limitations and be open to learning from others.
18. Foster Resilience: Develop the ability to bounce back from setbacks and challenges.
19. Build Strong Relationships: Invest time in nurturing friendships and family bonds.
20. Stay Physically Active: Prioritize health and fitness as part of a balanced life.
21. Embrace Creativity: Find ways to express yourself through art, writing, or other creative outlets.
22. Travel and Explore: Experience new cultures and perspectives through travel.
23. Be Financially Responsible: Practice good stewardship of your resources and finances.
24. Advocate for Justice: Stand up against injustice and support those in need.
25. Practice Forgiveness: Let go of grudges and seek reconciliation with others.
26. Cultivate a Positive Mindset: Focus on the good in life and maintain an optimistic outlook.
27. Engage in Philanthropy: Support charitable causes and give back to the community.
28. Be a Role Model: Live your values openly to inspire others.
29. Stay Connected to Faith: Regularly participate in religious activities and community.
30. Challenge Yourself: Step out of your comfort zone to grow and learn.
31. Live with Purpose: Identify your goals and pursue them with passion and determination.
    

NOTE: These principles reflect Charlie Kirk’s commitment to faith, family, and civic engagement, encouraging individuals to lead purposeful and principled lives.

©2025 y Dr. Richard M. Swier, LTC U.S. Army (Ret.). All rights reserved.

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