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Is Bipartisanship Dead?

If there’s one thing we all learned from the election, it’s that the American people agree on a whole lot more than their representatives do. Despite the breadth of our differences, this country still wants a lot of the same things. What most voters can’t understand is why 334 million of us can find some scrap of common ground and the 535 men and women on Capitol Hill can’t. Is compromise in politics even possible in a city where the two sides view each other as mortal enemies? Or is unity just the casualty of these ferociously divided times?

Of course, as a lot of historians would point out, hyper-partisanship is nothing new. The Founders had to wrestle with competing ideas every day just to get this remarkable experiment off the ground. Ratifying the Constitution took compromise. The Bill of Rights took compromise. The dozen-plus amendments that followed took compromise. But as Senator Joe Manchin (I-W.Va.) pointed out in a poignant farewell speech on the floor Tuesday, these men “understood what was at stake, and they were willing to put their differences aside to build something extraordinary.”

A lot of our struggles, Manchin emphasized, are pale in comparison to the disagreements they had 235 years ago. But unlike today’s leaders, they also understood the value of a raucous debate. Two centuries and a half later, Congress has lost the will to even have a conversation.

That’s one of Manchin’s greatest regrets. The moderate, one of the handful left in either chamber, mourned the loss of collaboration on the Hill, “of good people coming together to solve tough problems.” Thinking back on his 14 years in the Senate, he said emotionally, “[T]oo many opportunities to fix what’s broken in America [have] slipped right through our fingers.” They were missed, he insisted, because “politics got in the way of doing our job.”

There’s a power, the former governor wanted his colleagues to know, “of sitting down and listening and getting to know each other. And we don’t do that much here.” Everyone should be arguing over ideas, he admonished, “not personalities.” “George Washington warned us about the dangers of political parties dividing our country over 200 years ago, and we’re living in the world he feared today.”

That’ll have to change if the 119th Congress has hope of getting any legislation over the finish line. At last count, the GOP majority was dancing on a knife’s edge in the House, with just a single-vote margin for Speaker Mike Johnson (R-La.) — at least for the time being. With Donald Trump poaching three Republicans for his new administration, the special elections could take months to resolve. In the meantime, the chamber will have to decide: will gridlock or cooperation rule?

FRC Action’s Matt Carpenter is optimistic. “As contentious and consequential as the November 5th election was,” he told The Washington Stand, “I do think there are opportunities for bipartisanship. There’s already evidence that the results have kicked off an internecine squabble among Democrats on many of their social priorities, which were wildly out of step with the average American voter.” This may be the one thing that turns the tide, he believes. “I think this has opened up the possibility of some Democrats in Congress who may want their party to move back toward the middle in order to be competitive again in 2026. That may mean rethinking their party’s position on transitioning minors into the opposite gender, so-called Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion, open borders, and soft-on-crime policies, for example.” Carpenter points out that “there has been bipartisan support for other things like enforcing insider trading rules and term limits for members in the past. I’m hopeful the new Congress can find common ground on a range of issues.”

In the not-so-distant-past, the parties were also unified on political hot potatoes like taxpayer-funded abortion, natural marriage, Israel, national defense, and a host of other issues that have become sticks of ideological dynamite in recent days. The area with the most agreement, 38% of Americans believe, is foreign policy — but Hamas’s October 7, 2023 attack and the ensuing war have certainly challenged that notion.

“It used to be said, in the area of foreign policy, that politics stopped at the water’s edge,” observed Chuck Donovan, a longtime leader in the conservative movement and senior writer for the Reagan White House. “That ideal was never actually realized, as the Reagan years showed with their bitter conflict over intermediate-range nuclear forces and the Iran-Contra controversy,” he told TWS. “But there was some effort at least not to highlight division and embarrass our nation in foreign settings when it counted in the 1990s and after. Some of that spirit might return as the thorny issues regarding Ukraine and Israel ask us to act with character and foresight under a new administration.”

On the domestic front, he said, “One can always hope because the problems are so severe. We had bipartisan agreement for decades on preserving social security, eliminating government waste, equal opportunity for women in economics and politics, tax relief for families with children, and incentives for transitions from welfare to work. Some of this can be revived,” Donovan observed, “but there is tension over reducing deficits and the size of government while leaving entitlement programs untouched and offering absurd policies as we did with COVID relief grants and waiving student loans.”

As someone who spent four decades in Washington politics, he believes America “desperately needs a rejection of the selfishness of the Sexual Revolution and a revival of the institution of marriage. The Left has an opportunity to back away from the ‘gender’ madness. The Right has the opportunity to join forces with a true feminism that is appalled by the suppression of women in Afghanistan under the Taliban and presses for freedom for women in nations where it is sliding backward at an accelerating rate.” But, most importantly, Donovan added, “If we relearn how Creation is the work of a loving God who is the source of our rights and our only hope, we might yet again do things our forebears could scarcely imagine. We might seek our future among the stars and abandon not a single one of our young.”

Interestingly enough, there are areas in government where the two sides seem to peacefully co-exist. The philosophically-diverse Supreme Court is famously congenial, and the close friendship of the late Justices Antonin Scalia and Ruth Bader Ginsberg became the stuff of D.C. legend. While the two almost never agreed on the application of the law, Scalia would say of the unlikely duo, “Some things are more important than votes.”

Obviously, those justices don’t have to enter the mud-slinging campaign world and run for reelection, but if Congress thinks bitter gamesmanship is what the American people want every two years, they’re wrong. The country wants the unity that’s spoken about so often but rarely practiced. At the height of Biden’s failure of a presidency, Americans were asked if the parties should try to work together, and 74% said yes. Only 9% had a lot of confidence they would.

“It speaks to the frustration that people are feeling,” Lee Miringoff, director of Marist College Institute for Public Opinion told NPR. “Because they really would like things to get done. … They would like the system to run smoother.” In fact, he pointed out, 74% is the “highest we have had in a decade in terms of people wanting bipartisan compromise. So people are frustrated. That’s not news. But it sure shows in these numbers. … They would like more in the direction of working together. But they’re totally not convinced that that’s likely to occur. And who can blame them, given the … back-and-forth every day that we’re seeing in our politics coming out of the Capitol?”

In the frigid tensions of Washington, however, there are signs of a coming thaw. Just this week, three Democrats made the bold move of publicly supporting Donald Trump’s new Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE). “Streamlining government processes and reducing ineffective government spending should not be a partisan issue,” Rep. Jared Moskowitz (Fla.) declared, asking to join the House caucus on the effort. Agencies like Homeland Security, he argued, have “gotten too big.” “It’s not practical to have 22 agencies under this one department.”

Jaws dropped when radical leftist and Senator Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) agreed with this new tact. “Elon Musk is right,” Sanders tweeted. “The Pentagon, with a budget of $886 billion, just failed its 7th audit in a row. It’s lost track of billions. Last year, only 13 senators voted against the Military Industrial Complex and a defense budget full of waste and fraud. That must change.” California Democrat Ro Khanna chimed in, “There needs to be more open competition, not the monopolization in defense contractors.”

Then, there’s the great awakening some Democrats are starting to have about the nightmare of gender ideology in this country. After November 5, where the transgender issue almost certainly fueled Trump’s swing-state sweep, more congressional dads are opening up about the party’s intolerance for common sense on things like girls’ sports.

Rep. Seth Moulton (D-Mass.), who’s taken the brunt of the abuse for saying he doesn’t want his little girls competing against biological boys, is slowly being joined by other members of the party whose eyes are opened to the dangerous (and politically suicidal) strong-arming Democrats are doing on the issue. “We seem to have a set of liberal litmus tests, and if you don’t meet those litmus tests, then you’re not even allowed to share your opinion. I mean, this is the attitude that a lot of Americans feel the Democratic Party takes to the entire country. ‘If you don’t agree with us, then not only are you wrong, but you’re a bad person, and these things are not up for debate,’” he explained on CNN Tuesday.

“So, I gave this example of transgender women in sports. It’s just one of many issues where we’re not even allowed to have a debate. And many Americans are turned off by that. They say, ‘Why would I want to be a part of a party where my views aren’t valid, they’re not even up for discussion?’ The definition of a majority party is you actually encompass the majority views of Americans. And a lot of people feel the Democratic Party is out of touch right now. So if we want to start winning again, we’ve got to start embracing more ideas.”

Since then, more Democrats have come out from hiding, including Rep. Tom Suozzi (D-N.Y.) — who barely won reelection. In an interview with The New York Times, he argued that his party needs to “stop pandering to the far-Left.” “I don’t want to discriminate against anybody, but I don’t think biological boys should be playing in girls’ sports. … Democrats aren’t saying that, and they should be.”

Maybe in the new year, with a fresh start, both sides will find their way back to Christopher Buckley’s wise words, “Necessity is the mother of bipartisanship.” And as Manchin stressed in his long look around the chamber, “What the country needs right now [is] more of us together. Listening to each other, respecting each other, working together.” Because, as he said — and so many of us feel — “I still believe in this system. I believe in the purpose of what we have … and the need to cherish it.”

AUTHOR

Suzanne Bowdey

Suzanne Bowdey serves as editorial director and senior writer at The Washington Stand.

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How to Avoid Political Turmoil with Your Family This Thanksgiving

After every presidential election in our nation, millions of Americans are elated, while millions of others are dejected. And this year is no different.

A politically divided nation ensures that many extended families will likely face some contentious conversations this holiday. But it doesn’t have to play out that way with your family. Imagine experiencing tremendous unity this Thanksgiving, in spite of any political differences that may exist.

While you cannot control the decisions your relatives make, you can certainly do your part to avoid political turmoil and contentiousness. Pray that your family members will be accepting of one another this Thanksgiving, and that everyone will hold their tongue if tempted to gloat over the election results or to become contentious.

Once everyone has arrived on Thanksgiving, maybe someone could begin your festivities by offering the following prayers for the family: 1. Give thanks to God for all His blessings; 2. Ask God to bless the food you will enjoy that day; 3. Ask God to bless all the conversations.

Christian missionary Elisabeth Elliot (1926-2015) said, “Prayer lays hold of God’s plan and becomes the link between His will and its accomplishment on Earth.” And the Scottish evangelist and teacher Oswald Chambers (1874-1917) wrote, “God never gives us discernment in order that we may criticize, but that we may intercede.”

“God is not a God of disorder but of peace” (1 Cor. 14:33). And this is why the Holy Spirit will lead and empower followers of Christ to promote peace and order this Thanksgiving. After all, what good can come from a divisive and chaotic family gathering that spins out of control?

In addition to prayer, we can put Romans 14:19 into practice: “Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.” That is to say, be intentional about avoiding political confrontations this Thanksgiving. Make every effort to build one another up with words of encouragement.

Come up with some topics to discuss on Thanksgiving that everyone will enjoy. Visit about one another’s interests, while avoiding political controversy. Family members who are agitated over the election results will likely already be on edge when they walk through the door. Followers of Christ should avoid topics that might trigger a loved one to become upset.

The Apostle Paul wrote, “If your brother is distressed because of what you eat, you are no longer acting in love. Do not by your eating destroy your brother for whom Christ died” (Romans 14:15). The same thing applies to any political comments you might be tempted to make this Thanksgiving. If a relative becomes distressed because you are rubbing the election results in their face, you are no longer acting in love.

Paul wrote, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen” (Ephesians 4:29). Friendly and loving conversations tend to unite, whereas political combativeness only divides.

Do you have some topics in mind to discuss this Thanksgiving? Make a list of some non-political issues that are important to your family. Visit about things that provide hope. “The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life, but a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit” (Proverbs 15:4).

If someone throws a political grenade into the middle of your Thanksgiving celebration, maintain self-control. And if anyone expresses anger or intense animosity, remember this biblical principle: “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:4). God will help you exhibit gentleness, even in the face of aggression.

Always remember: “Love is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs” (1 Cor. 13:5). This is exactly how God loves His children whose sins are forgiven through faith in Jesus. If you are keeping a record of wrongs committed against you by any of your relatives, Thanksgiving is a perfect time to let go of grudges as you choose to “forgive each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32).

Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers…” (Matthew 5:9). Will you choose to be a peacemaker this Thanksgiving, even if someone attempts to pick a political fight? The Holy Spirit will give you the self-control necessary to hold your tongue while responding to any sarcastic comments with tenderness and compassion.

David made a particular request of the Lord that you can use in your personal prayers. “Set a guard over my mouth, O Lord; keep watch over the door of my lips. Let not my heart be drawn to what is evil” (Psalm 141:3-4). Regardless of what others choose to say, you can respond with sensitivity and empathy.

Jesus gave His life on the cross so that we could be reconciled to our Father in Heaven, and then do our best to be reconciled to others in Jesus’ name. The Bible instructs us: “Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord” (Hebrews 12:14).

In other words, if we refuse to live in peace with others, we are refusing to live in peace with God. Followers of Christ are “a new creation” (2 Cor. 5:17). You can love your family this Thanksgiving by speaking kind words, as well as by keeping certain thoughts to yourself. Silence is golden.

There are of course times when the Holy Spirit leads followers of Christ to visit privately with a relative about a delicate matter that needs to be addressed. In those situations, “A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver” (Proverbs 25:11).

Jesus said, “In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you” (Matthew 7:12). If you celebrate Thanksgiving prayerfully and with the right mindset, your kindness will honor the Lord and be a huge blessing to your family.

This article was originally published in The Christian Post.

AUTHOR

Daniel Delzell

Dan Delzell is the pastor of Redeemer Lutheran Church in Papillion, Nebraska.

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A Key to Unity in American Politics

As the calls for unity in this nation grow stronger, it is important to think about how this unity can be achieved. When I survey the U.S. social and political landscape, one key attribute I see missing is empathy. If we wish to be unified, we must learn to love the person with opposing views, even if we hate a policy or behavior that person is promoting. I’ll use an example from my background in counseling.

Early in my counseling career, I worked in a trauma clinic that served women and adolescents who had experienced domestic violence, sexual assault, rape, and other horrific forms of abuse. My clinic was created by grassroots advocates who wanted women to have a safe refuge and a place to heal from the abuse inflicted primarily by male spouses and partners. Most of my colleagues were avid feminists, motivated either by personal experiences with abuse or a desire to support women who were not treated with respect and care.

During my time at this clinic, I led a group for survivors of domestic violence. One of my clients was a Christian woman who worked as a pediatrician. She came to my group after her husband beat her with a baseball bat, nearly killing her. She spent a long time in the hospital recovering, and while she was there, her pastor came to visit her. The pastor looked at her, body casts and all, and said, to my dismay, “Well, you married him, so you’ll have to stay with him.”

Thankfully, my client did not listen to his advice, and she was able to escape a relationship that probably would have killed her.

These types of abusive situations — and the lack of support from the surrounding community — are largely what gave rise to the feminist movement of the 1970s. During this period, there was a renewed understanding of trauma and abuse, an awareness that had gone mostly underground since Sigmund Freud’s time. We now know that Freud initially observed trauma symptoms in his patients that had resulted from incest and abuse. But Freud experienced much social pressure while formulating his observations and eventually changed his theory to accommodate his critics. Nearly a hundred years later, the domestic violence experiences of women and the war trauma of the mostly male Vietnam veterans gave us renewed impetus to understand the effects of trauma.

In politics, we don’t always understand the reasons for a movement and are prone to only address issues at the surface-level. For example, when discussing matters related to feminism, there is a tendency to only focus on some of the issues that have grown out of the movement, like the abortion question, rather than trying to understand the personal experiences or trauma that might have led the other person to hold a particular opinion. A deeper understanding would enable a more comprehensive, empathetic discussion on the underlying issues rather than just the visible outcomes.

As the nation grapples with the idea of unity, I propose that we hold onto truth but with an empathetic listening ear. Let’s make an effort to understand the circumstances that have led a person to hold a particular social or political position. As we listen, let’s ask God for the kind of wisdom and understanding that sets people free. As Proverbs 21:22 says, “A wise man scales the city of the mighty and brings down the trusted stronghold.”

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Jennifer Bauwens

Dr. Jennifer Bauwens is the Director of the Center for Family Studies at Family Research Council.

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